Denise: Tilly is unquestionably a very bright and loving dog. But she also has her problems. Mainly it’s that she doesn’t like being separated from me even for a few moments. if I put her out behind the house (with makeshift barricades until Jonathan comes home and makes something better) and I walk up the garden to serve a customer: if she hears me talking she’ll bully her way out and race up the garden to join me, sometimes alarmig the customer! Or if I leave her in the house, then she’ll wet on the hall carpet – even though she’s just been let out a few mintues ago. I go into the bathroom to use the loo, and I come out to find …. yest you’ve guessed. And yet she’ll go through the night without any problem. Jonathan says that it’s to do with her experience with her previous owner: she was left all day in a residential caravan whilst her owner was out of work, and the sense of both abandonment during the daytime and heightened dependency on humans when they are present has resulted in this pattern of behaviour. There were similar problems with Dusky (our black cat) earlier in the year, and Jonathan’s analysys and advice proved spot on then, so hopefully we’ll find a solution for Tilly, too. I hope so, ‘cos at the moment this is stretching my patience!
Jonathan: Becky – our eldest daughter – is 31 today. She’s a lovely girl. A highlight of her birthday, she tells me, was the annual Aberystwyth Food and Drink Festival (sounds good to me!) on the streets of her home town. She told me of a young woman selling ‘food from the wild’, such as samphire cakes, crab apple jelly and the such-like. I can’t tell you how proud I feel to know that Becky values – is excited by – such things.: for not only does it say something powerful about her values, it also it says these values can be passed on two generations from mother to son, father to daughter, even though Denise and I have been conscientious in leaving Becky to find her own way in life, discover or forge her own values. This is not merely about what interests one – it is far more profound! It is about recognizing and rejoicing in the wonders of our planet, and the fruits of the earth which are there to feed us and supply our every need, both physical and spiritual. Autumn fruits are not just about food, but about receiving and giving, sorrow and sadness, death and re-birth.
Denise: All hatching from incubators now complete, and Buffy has now been entrusted with 28 chicks, which – believe it or not – all disappear under her feathers at night!
National Cycle Route 61 passes very close to the campsite here in Welwyn Garden City: from the A1000 on the south side of WGC it crosses the A414 and then follows the line of a former railway through Hatfield and then west for about 7 miles to St Alban’s, ending near the Abbey Station. The quality of the route – in terms of surface, width, junctions and signing – was highly variable and never good, however there is no doubt that had it not existed at all I certainly would not have cycled to St Alban’s and may never have gone there at all.
However all the annoyances of getting there were completely forgotton when I arrived in the old town centre, encountering first the Clock Tower (with its plaque commemorating Queen Eleanor – see photo) and then the Sunday Farmers’ Market. For a while I cycled amidst the many stalls and crowds, using gear 1-1 and scarcely moving forward, but taking it all in: farmhouse pork pies, Gloster Old Spot sausages, beeswax candles, hand-crafted breads … there was even an asian family selling their own recipes of sauces and ready-to-eat items made with them. I bought a cornish pastie and a small bottle of cider for lunch.
Next back down to the Clock Tower, across the road and down the lane to Cathedral. Over the years I’ve become increasingly disillusioned with great places of worship, but here any such concern quickly fell away. I was too late to join the choral eucharist being held at the high alter, but I sat in the nave in a pool of sunlight completely absorbed in the organ music, the singing of the choirs and the spoken word. In fact, experiencing it at one removed seemed somehow to heighten the impact, and I found many of my most long-held beliefs and values rising to the fore.
As the service drew to a close I left to eat my lunch on a bench by the nearby lakes. So many people – many families – quietly enjoying the lovely day, walking, sitting and talking, feeding the gees and ducks, and everything so simple and peaceful. It dawned on me, as I watched and listened, that what makes places like this special is that they are essentially pedestrian in scale and character, places where things happen more slowly, where people’s lives interesect more intimately, and that in going about our daily business we pass and meet people face to face, giving opportunity and time for smiles and pleasantries, but also for much more. It is true that life in the islands is dependent on cars and other motor transport: but we are fortunate that in our work with the walled garden and our croft much of what we do reflects the same timeless values I’m seeing here now.
I phoned Denise to tell her how much I feel I want to draw a line under my 32+ years as a civil engineer: it’s time to move on. Hopefully I will leave full-time work at the end of October, and if I do continue on a casual/part-time basis working at home, I don’t want it to take up too much of my time, and only for up to a year or so. I want to turn my attention – I want us both to work together on our own projects, which will be just as powerful a way of contributing to a better future for all as is the building of motorways, cycle paths or tram systems.
After lunch I explored the park and the Roman remains (rather disappointing), and then back to complete my tour of the Abbey, taking my time. It was a real privelege to to see the new ring of bells, waiting patiently in the N chancel for installation in the tower: what a pity I wasn’t here last weekend for the blessing ceremony – that must truly have been a once-in-a-lifetime experience for those lucky enough to attend. For the first time for many years, I really felt that I was at a true place of worship, and I noticed how all the visitors treated the place with respect, and how many seemed genuinely to pause and reflect on the music, the art and the relics of the past. The St Alban shrine in particular had the feel of a place of pilgrimage: not that people are likely these days to believe in the miraculous power of bones; but rather that a shrine such as this serves as a focal point for prayer.
Denise: Ok then, here are the much-awaited photos. Not very good I’m afraid: she is so ‘hyper’ that they come out as a blur! Anyway, they show what we’ve been up to this morning – a lovely walk along Prince’s Beach [in Eriskay] again. Tilly is wearing her new red collar – lead matches, so very smart get up. You see she loves a nice paddle, but doesn’t go in the water too far. We played at throw and catch bits of rope and seaweed and beach combed. Found a huge sea urchin shell – not quite whole – and lots of sea urchin fragments for Becky’s collage when she gets round to making it (must have thousands of pieces by now). Have let the cats outside today – hopefully they’ll return when hungry, dog or no dog: they’ll get over it! Lovely and sunny, must pick a few tomatoes next.